Being real is a rare quality. Not everyone can attain. One of my high school teachers had a saying, “fake it till you make it.” I always tried to understand what he meant by that, but it was hard for me. It’s difficult to be fake when all you know is real.
Finally, all of you, have unity in mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind.
(1 Peter 3:8)
How can we be unified, if we aren’t real with one another? Usually there are hidden agendas that causes people to be fake. Eventually the truth will prevail and be known. It’s better to be honest with yourself, if not it’s only a waist of time.